Oral Sex Techniques For a Mind Blowing Orgasm

o The adhara sphuritam- this is a beautiful technique where you press together the labia or the outer flowers of her vagina to form a lip. You then kiss it softly as you would kiss her lips. This is a unique way in which you can start off cunnilingus.

o The jihva bhramanaka- after taking some time with the position mentioned above, open her archway with your nose and probe her vagina with your tongue. Include your lips and your chin in the process. When you are engaged in this position, it is always better to have a clean shaved face. The vagina is an extremely sensitive area and you should be very gentle with it.

o Jihva mardita- next, massage the entire area vigorously with your tongue. Vary the pressure according to what she enjoys and remember to maintain a rhythm. Women enjoy it as much as men! Also remember to caress every inch of her and don’t stay at one area for too long a time.

o Chusita- this is where you take the technique to the height and suck on her clitoris. Remember, this is an extremely sensitive area and is the fastest way in which you can give her an orgasm. Ask your partner what she prefers- circling or licking, fast or slow strokes. It is always better to seek her approval instead of trying to guess. Suck her navel, her tummy and then skillfully zero in again on her vagina.

o You can give her the ultimate of climaxes by sucking hard on her clitoris. Hold her leg behind your back for added pressure and support.

o You can enhance each other’s pleasure by going for simultaneous caressing. Follow the 69 position and try the steps mentioned above. This is known as the kakila. It will increase your enjoyment as you are getting pleasured at the same time.

Try these oral sex techniques and get the most out of sex.

Pekkie Aon was a former socialite who used to coach female social escorts in Thailand. Now, she has turned the tables and is teaching men the secrets of female seduction. To date, she has more than 500 male clients in Thailand alone.

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Young Women Often Don’t Know How to Have an Orgasm

Becky explained via e-mail: “I had my first orgasm at 26 during masturbation – pretty late I know & since then no stopping me with the sex toys 🙂 Plenty of my girlfriends have not though – and like you say, don’t seem too bothered about it which I can’t understand.”

Despite this evidence from her friends, Becky was convinced that every woman must be as enthusiastic about orgasm as she was. Many women are unfamiliar with orgasm because female masturbation is relatively uncommon and so they never explore their sexual fantasies.

Ironically Becky’s experience of sex was more miserable than most. “I’m 31 & have had pretty non-orgasmic experiences to date! Issues with vaginismus & then guys who can’t get their heads around that, hormone stuff, dry years & mostly casual relationships.”

As a sex writer, Becky justified exploring sex with different partners as a means of learning about female sexuality. “I’ve been seeing an escort for various treatments – yoni massage, spanking, fantasy play etc, which has really helped & just started seeing a guy who I think will be good for me so we’ll see.”

As they become more financially independent, more young women explore learning about enjoying sexual arousal through dating men. Even so women stand to gain less from sexual promiscuity than men. All the evidence indicates that most women who learn how to orgasm during sex do so only after years of investment in a sexual relationship with the same partner.

Becky told me: “I had a breast orgasm at the weekend – interesting as it’s never happened to me before :)” Despite all this, Becky had still did not know how to have an orgasm from sex and had to masturbate herself to orgasm after her boyfriend reached his orgasm from their sex play. After all this, Becky was totally unconvinced that men might have a stronger sex drive.

A woman may want to have sex for emotional reasons (such as a subconscious desire to get pregnant) but this ‘female sex drive’ is a quite different phenomenon to the male drive to reach orgasm. From their teens men have little conscious choice over their sexual arousal and they quickly learn how to orgasm whereas Becky did not even discover orgasm until her mid-twenties.

Women’s sexuality has been hyped so much today that women often believe that they get as much out of sex as men do. Women can be terribly naive about men’s sex drive. Men tend to cover up their interest in sex for fear of either offending women or opening themselves up to ridicule. So even within marriage, many women are unaware how often their partner masturbates.

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The Special Characteristics Of Thai Women

Thai women are very beautiful and, unlike many Asian women, they usually don’t gain much weight as they age.
They are delightful companions.

Thailand’s economy is booming, but there is still a wide gap between rich and poor. Many people in Bangkok live in slums and many people in the North and Northeast are poor peasants.

They have traditionally sent their daughters to massage parlors or allowed them to be the second wives of rich men.

Yet many prostitutes in Bangkok are well-educated and
relatively affluent.

Some work regular jobs during the day and simply supplement their incomes by working parttime as escorts or hanging around certain coffee shops late at night where foreigners know to come.

Educated Bangkok women who aren’t prostitutes are
among the `nice’ women of Asia most willing to go out
with foreign men on a date.

They’re relatively sophisticated and exposed to Western ways. Yet they retain the traditional virtues of honoring their husbands and being faithful.

They have a nudity taboo, but are not inhibited
physically, because they’re not taught by their religion that the body and sex is evil. They know men need and want sex and their role is to give is to their husbands.

Even when they don’t like it as much as you, they don’t have headaches. English is taught in Thai schools, so educated Thais speak it fairly well.

One thing to remember if you start to stay with one for a length of time, even a bar girl, is that they are jealous.

Many Thai men do have mistresses. They keep them apart from their main family.

Many Thai men go to massage parlors and many Thai women even encourage this, but only because there’s no emotional entanglement.

Traditionally, Thai women picked out their husband’s
second wife when he could afford one, but the first wife’s status was guaranteed.

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The Sensual Pleasure of an Erotic Massage

An erotic massage can be one of the best experiences for a couple. It can take your partner to the heights of ecstasy. Follow the tips below for an experience of a lifetime.

o Start off by going for the right setting. You can go for satin sheets, scented candles and some water based lubricants. You can also go for scented massage oils, just avoid these on her genitalia. You don’t want her to break out in rashes afterwards! Make sure your nails are clipped and your hands are well oiled before you start off with the massage.

o Set the mood for some romance by looking into her eyes and going for synchronized breathing. Caress her face and fingers and then lie her face down on the table. Go for a relaxed massage on her upper and lower body. Your strokes should be firm but gentle. Concentrate on her neck, waist and thighs. You could also try the backs of her knees. You should not lean over the table. Go for gliding strokes and make sure that you hands are in constant touch with her body.

o You can get her sexually stimulated by either the clitoris or the g spot. When in doubt, just do both and ask her which she prefers. You can do both together when she is very aroused.

o You can try massaging her clitoris in circles or side by side. If you get a clear message as to which is better, just stick to it. Usually, a woman will enjoy g spot stimulation only when she is extremely aroused. Till that time, use lubricated fingers to excite her clitoris.

o If you are not having sex after this, try cocooning her in something warm. It can be a very peaceful experience!

Erotic massages can expose both you and your partner to sensual pleasures you’ve never dreamed of before this!

Pekkie Aon was a former socialite who used to coach female social escorts in Thailand. Now, she has turned the tables and is teaching men the secrets of female seduction. To date, she has more than 500 male clients in Thailand alone.

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The Importance of Nursing Home Activities

Many people think a nursing home is a nasty, soul-less place where residents either lie in bed or sit endlessly in a rocking chair, waiting out their days until the inevitable happens. The reality – at least in a good nursing home – is far from that. Many people enter a nursing facility when they have lots of life in them yet, and look forward to years of fun and companionship, with daily activities to keep both their bodies and brains active.

In fact, studies have shown that regular stimulating activities help half a decline in depression among nursing home residents, staving off dementia and keeping their spirits as well as their bodies alive. Activities are vital to keeping up residents’ mental and physical well-being, and even staff and visiting family and friends can take part – willingly – in the activities a good nursing home provides.

If you are looking to find a nursing home for a loved one who’s still capable of loving life, it’s important that you discover what types of activities are on offer – and how often they are available. In fact, nursing homes that take Medicare or Medicaid patients have to have a designated activities director to get the proper funding. But how well they carry out their job is something you will have to assess yourself…

“I think the residents I talk to who tell me there is nothing for them to do but sleep, eat and read the paper are looking for purpose to get up every morning,” writes Vicki30CNA on the allnurses.com website. “They do not look forward to the next day as they all run together. And our residents that are not as able get little to no stimulation besides toileting and shower. A few fold bibs every AM and see it as their ‘job’, but that job takes them a half hour. Then what, they tell me. I hate to see their last years months days so empty and without purpose. ”

If you want to avoid this from happening to someone you love, read on. A wide variety of activities should be on offer at every nursing home, so make sure this is the case when considering a nursing home. Some residents may enjoy going out for lunch several times a week, shopping or visiting the local art gallery or cinema. Others will prefer on-site activities that stimulate their hearts and minds.

It might be a good idea to have a chat with the nursing home activities director to see what’s available. Here is just a handful of activities that a good nursing home should willingly provide…

Self-Starting Activities

Great as they require little preparation and can be planned by the residents themselves. They include:

Gardening. Depending on residents’ scope of mobility and interest, gardening can be as rigorous or as gentle as they want it to be. If there is a real garden that’s fantastic, if not then hanging baskets, small pots of herbs and indoor cactus or orchid collections can still keep the interest going.

Arts and crafts. Even older residents enjoy making something – especially when they feel it’s going to a good cause. Knitting blankets, making baby clothes or entering art or photographic contests can keep people busy and help them make a contribution to society at the same time.

Games. You might think bingo is the most popular nursing home game – and you’re right. But there’s more to competitive games than just bingo. How about bridge, mah-jong, canasta or chess – the sky’s the limit. One-on-one games are great for encouraging closer relationships among residents, and group games are also good for fostering a sense of community.

Musical-based activities. Don’t limit the fun to sing-alongs – you may even have professional musicians among the residents, or you may discover some hidden talents.

Volunteer-led Activities

Nail care, Bible study, hair salon day – all you need is a volunteer with a skill – and the time to make a difference in someone’s life.

School groups. It may sound cliched, but young people have a lot to learn from oldsters. This can take the form of Granny teaching little Albertine to knit, or visiting a school once a week and reading to the little ones. Many schools, in fact, encourage people from the outside – assuming they have been police-checked – to help kids who need a little bit extra with one-to-one reading or math exercises.

Local community groups. People who have a special talent often enjoy visiting nursing homes on a regular basis and sharing their skills. This can be giving residents massages or reflexology sessions, teaching them a special aspect about gardening, or giving a talk about growing orchids.

Scout groups. Often, scout troops visit nursing homes – gathering together to do something fun such as bake chocolate-chop cookies or build a birdhouse. The two groups can learn from each other and make use of each other’s skills and talents.

Local charities. People from charities often give their time to older people, whether that means preparing outings or having a Pet Therapy day when the local vet or employees from the animal shelter bring animals to visit.

Nursing Home-Led Activities

Themed events, such as birthdays or religious celebrations. Some creative residents get together with staff to plan events such as Hawaiian nights, Chinese New Year celebrations or Halloween or Thanksgiving festivities. Friends and family can be invited to join in – perhaps even residents of neighboring nursing homes as well.

Outdoor activities such as barbecues, picnics or a stroll through a park or garden center. In some cases volunteers may be called on to help residents with mobility issues.

A bit of culture. Going to the theatre, opera, museum or cinema can take some planning, but its worth it. Again, volunteer helpers and drivers may be necessary.

Alternative therapies. Everyone can benefit – as long as they’re not too invasive. Massage, yoga or Tai Chi can help residents have fun, get fit and relax.

Keeping people as happy and healthy as possible for as long as possible. both physically and mentally, should be the goal of every nursing home. Activities should be varied and interesting, suited to the different abilities, needs and interests of the residents. They should be not only fun but worthwhile, enabling residents to form new relationships, develop new skills, and keep up their fitness levels.

“We have a ‘senior prom’ in May, where the local single Marines escort our residents (wheelchairs and all) for dancing and food, writes CoachCathy on the allnurses.com site. “We have gowns and suits donated by the local thrift stores. Local hair parlors come and do the hair and nails. Everyone has a blast.

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